Tuesday, June 15, 2010

...From Under Your Wing...


I just love this picture. It's from a while back, maybe last month sometime, but in reveiwing some photos, this one kept speaking to me.  The chick poking its little head out above the momma's wing is just precious to me.

This picture made me think of this verse in Isaiah.  It's the King of Assyria speaking.  Basically he's boasting that because of the negligence (or distraction) of the people, he was able to come in and take over and no one so much as spoke up or raised a hand to stop him.
"My hand has found like a nest the wealth of the peoples; and as one gathers eggs that have been forsaken, so I have gathered all the earth; and there was none that moved a wing or opened the mouth or chirped."     ~Isaiah 10:14
I have heard this likened to us, as parents.  We get so self-absorbed, so distracted with work, with leisure activities, with life's details, that we forget to protect and guard our children "under our wings".  We don't pay attention to the things that are influencing them.  And because we allow those influences without "moving a wing" and without opening our mouths or "chirping", our wealth--our treasure--our very children and their loyalties are removed from us and their values become those of the things we have allowed by our silence.

I am certain that this is a primary reason for the high percentage of teens and young adults who run screaming away from the church and even from the values held by their parents.  When we parents aren't putting our "money" or our influence where our mouth is, our kids perceive it.  They know what our true values are--the way we spend our time and our money speaks LOUD AND CLEAR.  If we don't raise a hand and chirp a little (or a lot) to protect our children from ungodly influences, they will be plucked from under our very wings.  Our children were given to us for us to protect and to guide and yes, to discipline.  If that was not God's intention, he would've just populated the earth with no "family" order.  But that's not how He did it.  He put children in families so they could be protected, guided, loved, and taught and there are clear consequences for ourselves and our children when we don't do our God-given jobs. 

Happy Tuesday Morning Happenings...

This morning, Domino was missing. She's been hugely pregnant for a while now and we knew it was going to happen any time, but we hadn't marked down the date. So when we noticed she didn't come when we called the dogs this morning, we knew it must be "the day." Check out the variety in this litter. How fun! We aren't sure yet how many there are, she was still laboring when I came inside.



The kids love getting to be a part of all the births we experience here on our little homestead, what with all the goats, chickens, dogs, etc, there are quite a few. But we are making a conscious effort to minimize the occurence of puppy births--the kids have gotten to experience that quite enough now. Anna got "fixed" a few weeks ago, after weaning her second litter, and I'm sure Domino won't be far behind--as soon as her pups are weaned.



Here's John Wesley's new wethered Nubian, Chewy. He's got the prettiest, longest ears I've ever seen on a goat...and he has the sweetest disposition. He's like a faithful porch dog. He walks up the ramp and lays by the porch gate just waiting for one of us to come out and pay him some attention--with all the coming and going of the 10 of us, he usually doesn't have to wait long! He's not mischeivous like the other goats, he's just sweet. Don't get me wrong though, he likes my rhododendron leaves just as much as the next goat. John Wesley like to spoil him; here he's pulling down a tree limb so Chewy could get some breakfast this morning.
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Friday, June 11, 2010

Beautifully Devastated....

Never having been out of the US before, I found myself just completely mesmerized by the many sights and sounds of this different culture.  Of course, I've been reading fairly extensively about Haiti since last year before John Wesley left for his first mission trip, but nothing could have really prepared me for actually BEING there!  Riding on the back of the tap-tap, or even inside the van we rented for the longer rides was such an experience!  Riding around from place to place was probably one of my favorite things, because I feel like it allowed me to get to really see Haiti.  We were up in the cool mountains, down in the hot busy city, and even out to the beautiful tropical beachfront.  Here's a video I took on one of our outings.  You'll probably get dizzy, but you'll get to see some of the streets of Haiti.
I loved seeing all the beautiful, colorful sights; but, of course, there was lots of heartbreak as well.  At one point, during our trip up the mountain from the airport to Lance and Mona's house, I said something like, "This is the most beautiful, most devastated place I've ever seen."  And it's true.  How can a place be at once so devastated, yet at the same time be so unspeakably beautiful?  I don't know, yet Haiti IS both at once.      
Beautiful palm trees flourish amongst the rubble.

 
Flowers bloom atop earthquake ruins.
You can see in this picture, what was once a picturesque hilly meadow is now a tent city (although not nearly as crowded or muddy as most that we saw) and there is evidence of the earthquake where you can see the mudslide area on the far hillside.
I was struck by this creek (or whatever) running beside one of the tent cities.  You can see the trash on the bank and all the tin shacks and tarp-houses nestled one against the other.  Mothers use this water to do their laundry and to bathe their children, and many probably use this water for cooking their meager meals.  The pigs use this water as a wallering hole, and the goats and dogs also use it freely.
I am including this picture (which I took from our van as we were driving, so it's a little blurry) because you can see the joyous way the little girls are playing and waving to us IN SPITE of their situation, living in a tent city.  You can see the mother in the background bent over washing their clothes by hand.  Some of their clothes are already hanging to dry.
                                     
As I mentioned, all the joyful tropical colors were everywhere you looked!  From painted tin huts, painted storefronts, painted tap-taps, and then the colors of the beautiful flowers which just spring up everywhere, of course.  I couldn't help but smile when I saw the fancy tap-taps.  I told my team mates that I was going to paint our bus like a tap-tap when we got home.  They think I'm joking.....  For those of you who may not know, in Haiti, a tap-tap is public transportation.  And tap-taps are ALWAYS crowded, but there is always room for one more!  It's not uncommon to see people hanging on the back or riding on the top of tap-taps.  Someday we're going to paint our bus and it will be THE UNDERWOOD FAMILY TAP-TAP...ALWAYS ROOM FOR ONE MORE!!!  Perfect slogan for us, right???
    
Sometimes, as in the picture above, a tap-tap is simply a pickup truck with high sides built onto the back with some seat benches built in.  Sometimes, however, as in the picture further down, they are more like a bus.  Some are extremely colorful like these, while others are more utilitarian in appearance.    
    
I really liked this tap-tap!  It was one of my favorites!    
    
Notice the plea, "Help Us" written in graffiti beside this storefront.
     
And here are a couple pictures of the gorgeous flowers that seem to bloom everywhere just to remind everyone that God is STILL here, He's still in control.  And if he cares about and provides nourishment for the flowers, how much more He must love and care about the precious PEOPLE of Haiti.   

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Bacon, Sausage, and Chops...

Allow me to introduce you to our pigs.  Their names are (were) Bacon, Sausage, and Chops.  Aren't they cute?
We bought them as piglets back in the fall, and Jonas has been their caregiver every day since we brought them home.  In fact, as we were rounding them up, Jonas (unintentionally) got a ride on one of them!  That was pretty exciting.  Actually, the whole ordeal of getting them loaded up was pretty entertaining (for me, as a spectator, anyway.)
Anyway, we got them loaded up and headed off to the butcher.  It was sort of a bittersweet moment.  We bought them INTENDING to butcher them, but you know, you kind of develop an appreciation for them as you watch them grow.  They were happy pigs, wallowing in the mud puddles and roaming at will about their pasture.  The kids were faithful about making sure their big wallow puddles were filled each day.  So, they had had a good life, unlike their factory farm cousins.
We came home with around 600 lbs of home-grown, hormone/antibiotic-free meat for much less than it would've cost from the grocery store.  It filled 2 freezers.
I'm going to be cooking lots and lots of pork!  Feel free to share your favorite recipes!!!  I'll need them!
We may need to invite some guests over to help us eat THIS roast that John Wesley's holding!  It's smelling pretty good in here right now....Harold and the boys are trying out some chops, nevermind the fact that it's 10:00 at night!  I guess you could say they are PIGGING OUT!!!  Haha!


Friday, June 4, 2010

Ministry in Haiti...

On Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, our pastors, Jason and Darrell, held a pastor's conference for about 15 pastors who are serving in the Haitian churches surrounding Lance and Mona's area.  Many of them walked quite a ways (up to 2 hours or more) to attend these meetings.
On Monday, part of our crew headed up the mountain to the village of Boucan, where Hope in the Light has their school and orphanage.  Here the group did some VBS-type activities with the school children after they finished their school work for the day. 
It is so incredible to see this school.  As you see in the picture, it is 6 classrooms under three tarps.  The students sit at rough desks and the teachers have no fancy materials with which to teach their lessons.  It's teachers, students, and a few books.  There is no air conditioning; there is no cafeteria; there is no teacher's lounge; and there is NO COMPLAINING!  The children are well-behaved and the teachers are professional and expect the best of their students.  (Here's a picture of John Wesley demonstrating a craft for the kids.)
On this morning, several of the members of our team (including John Wesley) had WALKED up the mountain instead of riding.  It took them 4--yes, FOUR hours to walk.  It was nearly straight uphill the majority of the way.  The interesting thing is that the man who walked with them (a Haitian man) walks this every day to get to work--and it only takes him a little over an hour!  I'm telling you what--these are hard-working, strong people!
On Wednesday, some of the men went back up the hill to work on painting the orphanage, while the rest of us held a mini-VBS for the children who lived in Lance and Mona's neighborhood.  We had around 20-25 there I believe.  There was a Bible story, crafts, a snack and other activities.  Here are two of the three littlest ones that I got to play with during this time.  Aren't they gorgeous????

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Happy Birthday, Dear Matthew...

We interrupt the Haiti saga for just a moment so we can wish Matthew a Happy Birthday!!!

His birthday was actually a few days ago, but this was the first evening it worked out for us to all get together. I love this picture of him! It is significant because of that sweet smile he's wearing. See, this little guy wouldn't even look at anyone or anything for a long time, much less display pleasure or displeasure! And here, not only is he looking at me, he's SMILING because he likes his present!!! That's progress; that's healing!

Of course, the cake got him excited. Food is the one thing that has always "moved" him!! And, having the grandparents he's been blessed with, he HAS to love ice cream--they have ice cream every night whether they feel like it or not. It's a ritual at their house, a ritual my kids have come to love. So, cake and ice cream were a big hit.

We're so thankful that God blessed us with this sweet boy! We look forward to another year with him and pray that this year will bring even more progress toward becoming the young man God made him to be.
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Church and shopping--Haitian style...

[From Sunday, May 23, 2010]
Of course Sunday brought church, which Lance and Mona host in their home. There was Sunday School in the living room for the children and Sunday School on the porch for the adults. Then there was church on the porch and children’s church on the back veranda.
The ladies dress in their best dresses and the men in their best clothes or suits. They count it a privilege to gather to worship, and worship they do! I remembered anew that music--especially worship music--transcends language. There is no language barrier in worship. As I looked around me, I saw the women and men, already so beautiful, even moreso with their hands and faces raised heavenward pouring out their hearts in worship.
Our pastor, Jason, brought the message, which was translated beautifully by one of the ladies in the church (she also happens to be the principal of the mission’s school). At points in the message, Jason would express a thought that took only a couple words to get across in English, but when it was translated into the Haitian Creole, it took quite a bit to get across. I’ve been told that it is difficult to express all the “colors” of meaning in the Creole language.
After church, we went to a place called Lookout Point. It’s a spot further up the mountain from us where there is a scenic view of the city of Port au Prince, all the way down to the ocean. It’s gorgeous from there. As we stood there looking out, it was about the time of afternoon when the rains come in. The clouds began to come in and by the time the second vehicle arrived with the rest of our team, you could no longer see the city.
There are several vendors selling souvenirs here and as soon as we had gotten out of the vehicle, they were dogging our heels. “Here mom, I show you my things. I give you good price.” I answered that I was going to look at the view first and one of the men decided to accompany me. He was very friendly, pointing out items of interest that could be seen from our vantage point. I made a comment about the clouds and he told me the Creole word for cloud. He offered to take a picture of me with the city as a backdrop. Then when I was ready to look at the vendors’ booths, he accompanied me to his. I looked at his things and told him I wasn’t ready to buy that I wanted to look around a bit more. He said, “Okay, but you not forget me, mom.”
I was approached by several vendors all trying to sell me something from their booth. While I shopped, the first man kept approaching me saying, “Don’t forget me, mom. I wait for you.” I had to keep putting him off so I could continue to look. There was also a man who approached me with a pair of wooden sculptures that, frankly, I didn’t want. He wanted $20.00 for the pair. I told him no. He turned them over and showed me the carved name on the bottom. “That’s me--Tony,” he said. I said, “Oh, you carved these?” He said, “Yes, me, Tony,” and smiled really big, revealing his crooked, partially toothless grin. I patted his thin arm, told him they were nice, and went on shopping. A couple minutes later, there’s Tony again, thrusting the sculptures at me. “I make you good price. Please, I have sick baby.” I said, “Tony, I’m going to keep shopping.” He said, “Okay, you come back.” I continued shopping and a few minutes later, here came Tony once more. I put him off again. Each time he approached me, he lowered his price, but I continued to decline. He didn’t get it. I didn’t want them. I looked at some paintings, which I bought. I looked at some other trinkets, which I bought. All the while Tony was watching me. And in between purchases, he continued to make pleading eyes at me and wave the sculptures at me. Finally, it was time for our team to head back down the mountain a bit and we were getting in the car. Tony approached me one last time. “Please mom, I hungry, I have sick, hungry baby. I empty for money. I give to you for $6.00 for the pair.” And don’t you know I caved and BOUGHT those stupid things!?!?!? I’m glad I did, though, cause now I can look at them and remember my Haitian friend Tony.
After I finished my transaction with Tony, the man came over who had escorted me to the lookout area and showed me the view. Shaking his head with a shaming look, he said, “Look, you buy all this, but you not buy from me. I show you all the city, and you no buy. I lose my time for you and you not buy.” I felt like such a louse for wasting the poor guy’s time!  I quickly shut my door and we headed back down the mountain.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Saturday in Haiti...

[From Saturday, May 22, 2010]
Saturday dawned bright and early. We woke up around 5 am, found out it was really only 4 o’clock Haiti-time, tried to sleep a bit longer, but couldn’t, so after “putting on the armor” I got up and used the facilities. A sign on the wall in the bathroom said this: “In the islands of the sun, We don’t flush for Number One.“ Another note said, “If it’s yellow, let it mellow; If it's brown, flush it down.“ So, for “number one” we don’t flush. For “number two,“ we “flush” by taking the five gallon bucket and pouring a gallon or two of water into the toilet until everything goes down.
Next, I took a shower. Well…sort of, anyway. I got the 5 gallon bucket out of the bathroom, went around the back of the house, and filled the bucket with cool water from the cistern and brought it back inside. I found another small container and poured the water from the bucket over me to get all wet, then soaped up, then, gasping from the cold, poured another container of water over me to rinse it all off. 
Now it was time to do my hair. That meant combing it and putting a hair band on. No fuss. We were on a generator or batteries much of the time there, so we do as little as possible electronics-wise in order to conserve.
This was the day we did the medical clinic. Well, most of us did. John Wesley and some of the other men worked on painting the school benches and desks. We loaded up into the tap-tap and rode up the mountain about 45 minutes or so to the town of Boucan, which is where Hope in the Light is building the orphanage and school. The orphanage building is nearly complete and the school already has over 150 students, but no building yet.
We got our first taste of living on “Haitian time” on this morning. The driver who brought the tap-tap was about an hour later than we expected. No biggie, you just go when you go. That turned out to be okay, because the doctor still got there later than we did!!!
One hundred and thirty five precious, beautiful, Haitian people showed up to be seen by the doctor and our team this day. As we served these people, I was struck by their quiet, dignified demeanor. There were 135 people in a space about the size my house. It was not noisy. Children were all over the place, but they were well-behaved and quiet. They sat beside their mothers, the littlest ones on laps or at their mother’s breast. Some played outside with their friends, but there was no foolishness and no rowdiness. They all waited so patiently for their turn to see the doctor. No one complained. No one grumbled. No one insisted that they needed to be seen right away because they’d been sitting there “so long.” No one complained that they had had to walk, some for a LONG time, and then had to sit for a LONG time waiting.
The Haitian people seem to accept their lot in life, whether good or bad, with a quiet grace and dignity that is hard for me, as a “spoiled blanc (white person)” to grasp. The people we met are so hard-working, many walking for over an hour or more to reach the place they will work for the day, often carrying heavy loads--on their head. The women do their laundry in basins by hand, then lay their clothes in a sunny spot to dry. I imagine myself doing that for my family of 10 and cringe. The mothers carry their babies, and in the clinic, as they waited, they held them in their arms--no baby carriers, no strollers, only their momma’s strong, loving arms. I think maybe our American babies would like that, too.
We were in Haiti during the rainy season, so it rained everyday while we were there, this day was no exception. Off and on throughout the day, there were little cloudbursts and we were at such a high elevation, the clouds would just roll literally into the building and the fog was so thick you couldn’t see anything outside past the doors. Then things would clear a bit for awhile. Toward the end of the afternoon, we began getting more and more frequent rains and it was time for the first load of us to go back to the house.
To meet the tap-tap, we had to walk about ¼-½ a mile up the steep hill, already muddy, made even more-so by the heavy rains. OH.MY.GOODNESS. I was slipping all over the place, getting soaking wet, completely out of breath trying to get up the hill. I couldn’t believe how dead I was. I knew I was a wimp, but had no clue how much so!!! The Haitians were walking, too, and they would pass us up and giggle at us. One of the Haitian men who was with us was being so sweet, he would stop and rest with us even though he wasn’t the least bit tired. We all laughed about how us old white ladies were so out of shape. He told us the mountains made the Haitians skinny. It must be so! My goodness.
We finally got up the hill (some of us had a more difficult time than others--count me in that group) and boarded the tap-tap as it poured the rain. It continued to pour the whole 45 minutes we rode down the hill. The water was pouring down our faces, soaking our clothes all the way down to underwear and socks. The little girls that had ridden up to the clinic with us from Lance & Mona’s neighborhood were riding home with us as well. As the rain poured down, the little girl on my lap would bury her face in my neck and hug me tight. I won’t lie, I was so thankful to have her to hold on to. Not only that, but as I prayed for this little girl, my worries and fears about the treacherous, slippery ride were somewhat eased. I looked over at one point in the trip and John Wesley had his arm around one of the little ones, trying to keep her warm. Yes, it was actually a bit chilly. I was pleasantly surprised at how mild the weather was during our trip, especially during our days up on the mountain--I had really expected it to be much hotter.  Indeed it was much hotter down in the city on the days we were down there.  Elevation is a GOOD thing!